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Corporal punishment

17 years 9 months ago #67366 by CrewChief
Replied by CrewChief on topic RE: Corporal punishment
I just got a phone call from my neighbor. Seems that yesterday a teacher pulled her son out of one classroom, dragged him into another classroom, called him a liar in front of everyone and then when he tried to defend himself called him a liar again and hit him on the head with a rolled up posterboard. Then this same teacher tracked down the twin brother and said his project better not be the same as his brother's or he'll get a zero! My friend said that by Monday she will have this teacher's job. I told her how awfully humiliating it must have been for her son but (sarcastically) "You know, corporal punishment is legal in Alabama." She said "Not after Monday!"

One awful part about this is that her son isn't even the one who told her. Seems he would have rather suffered in silence than make it worse. She was carpooling kids home and heard them talking about it in the back seat. She turned right back around, marched into the school and demanded a meeting with the principal. He's agreed to look into it further and meet with her again first thing Monday morning.

The bright side is that the principal is taking it seriously and working with the parent!

Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same."

"The ultimate aim of karate lies not in victory or defeat but in the true perfection of one's character."
17 years 9 months ago #67365 by <beignets&coffee>
Replied by <beignets&coffee> on topic RE: Corporal punishment
oh maybe you should have told her, thats THUMBS and not fingers she has!!
17 years 9 months ago #67364 by <beignets&coffee>
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is it typically the teachers that are doing the paddling, or the principals?
sorry if it seems a dumb question!
17 years 9 months ago #67363 by pegmomof4
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That techup packet would be a ketchup or catsup packet, and no, that's not how we spell it in the south, lol
17 years 9 months ago #67362 by pegmomof4
Replied by pegmomof4 on topic RE: Corporal punishment
Thanks again to all of you for the chatter and help. I hope that you are spreading this topic to your friends, it is the dirty little secret of the south, for the most part.
Sorry if the pictures offend, but it is the best way to show the level of abuse that is tolerated. I have personal contact with several of the families involved, and their stories are unbelievable. The vast majority of children who are hit are not even trouble makers at home or school. We tend to find that children are hit for missing math problems, picking their nose, being tardy to class, chewing gum, tossing a techup packet in the lunchroom, minor stuff, some of which is not even disciplinary, eg the homework issue, which has a natural consequence called grading the work.
It is such a irony as pointed out that we do have wellnes programs in place. We have anti violence and anti bullying campaigns.
Of interest to me is the fact that the No Child Left Behind just issued 31 million dollars in grant money to 19 school systems in the nation, to be divided. It is a Safe and Healthy Schools Initiative. Each got between nearly 1 and 1.8 million dollars to spend. 465 school districts applied, and 19 were chosen, representing 14 states. I dug around and found that of the states, 7 of the 14 have corporal punishment, and of those seven winning districts, 6 of them still hit kids. I have called those in charge of the grant to let them know that these school districts need to use this money for safe discipline, teacher training, etc. I am being heard, no one knew this was going on. I called the superintendents of all the school districts still hitting, and challenged them to use a portion of the funds for teacher inservice, effective classroom management. There is a winner from my state, NC, and the superintendcnt told me she could count on one hand the number of children hit. I told her she must have 225 fingers on that hand.....
17 years 9 months ago #67361 by <beignets&coffee>
Replied by <beignets&coffee> on topic RE: Corporal punishment
there is no one method that is good for each child/family, every person is unique, but people hired to protect the welfare of children should not be injuring minors in the name of 'discipline and its not illegal so that means its OK'.
the 21 or so states that still have corporal punishment on the books, should get those dusty olds law books out, and recind the outdated, uncivilized (to put it mildly), ones, imo.

(didnt dr Spock's child commit suicide?)
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