Help! I'm the same parent who posted the original perks for boardmembers. Our final fundraiser is a flower sale. Our board president has decided that she and the other board members along with the Principal and myself get to buy our flowers at cost because of all the work they/we have put in to coordinating the event. When I raised objections, I was royally slammed and when I requested that the whole PTO get to vote on this matter, I was told that I was already outvoted by the board and that there was nothing in the by-laws that says they couldn't do this.

Thoughts, feedback, solutions?? I've been on the board and have not wanted to hold an office again, but I want to stay involved. I am just really, really opposed to anything that even looks unethical