The money should go to the school where it is needed and beneficial to the students you serve to enrich. I do not blame those involved with the decision. Please think about what you are truly doing as a group. It is for the children at that school. It is nice to donate money , but find out how you can get others involved before deciding on a charity. Maybe before the t-shirts were ever sold or maybe they have not get in agreement on a charity that is mutual to donate to by not only PTO but teachers and students.